Ibanez wrote:CID1990 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2020 6:24 am
I played with the Explorers from about 16 until I left for college. We didn’t have girls in the troop... I don’t think they were allowed back then.
I liked Explorers... we just camped and canoed down the Dan River and hunted and fished. By the time I was 16 I was bored with my Scout troop and just did Explorers and Order of the Arrow shit... I liked the hazing
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The OA shit was serious in the low country. My brother was OA, though looking back it was because all of his friends were so I suspect it had more to do with that and less with being a person that best exemplified the Scout Oath.
Now that i'm thinking about it...i'm pretty sure my brother blackballed me and I that's why I never got an invite.
OA was serious shit where I was and it had little to do with who you knew - more to do with could you take the Ordeal
We had a famously hard Ordeal - and troops would select you based on whether or not they thought you could make it through. If your troop got a rep for nominating pussies it would reflect poorly. So they tended to nominate the toughest cookies.
But if you were a dick, you wouldn’t get nominated, either. You needed to have a balance- of toughness, but you had to be nice, too. All the guys I stay in contact with who were OA from my council are now captains of industry, military leaders (general officers, admirals), a couple ministers/priests, etc