TwinTownBisonFan wrote:the reason we have soldiers families on food stamps (and this is straight from multiple guys who are in now, and have been over the past 10 years) is that either a) that family can't budget for **** or b) the dude won't let his wife find work (which i was surprised to hear still happened) or c) their family situation is more complicated than they're letting on
I really can't speak to b), though I ran into that often enough to know it was bullcrap. Idiot marries his HS sweetheart just before deployment, drags her out to his base in the middle of nowhere, refuses to show her how to use the exchange/commissary or introduce her to anybody, and then pops out on deployment, and wonders why his wife either fled for home or got preggers at the local deployment widow bar. I'm with you on that one.
But the other two?
a) The average guy in is c. 18-22. Translation: S/he has a HS education, which has FAILED to cover basic budgeting for 40 years or more. This shouldn't be surprising. But there's a caveat I'll get to in a minute.
c) "It's complicated?" Yeah. Any E-3, even with the higher BAH, makes barely enough to pay the rent in most places. And if they take base housing, said BAH goes away. BAH is SUPPOSED to cover rent AND utilities, but most places in military towns jack up the rent as soon as a BAH increase goes through, so servicemember has to pay utilities out of pocket. In many places, that's a significant chunk. And it's even worse if they have kids.
So, you see, even the AVERAGE E-1 to E-5 (and in some areas, even higher) is on welfare. The pay gap with the civilian sector is huge, especially when one factors in the level of training. Asking these kids to do what they do and then yank the rug out from them under them like this is REALLY disingenuous.